Skip to main content

How to Become The Person You Want to Be!

  How to Become The Person You Want to Be!
Most of us experience a gap between the person we want to be and person we are at the moment. We want to be smart and ambitious, but we delay or procrastinate. We want to be attentive parents, but we get "caught up" and drop the ball with our kids. We want to be disciplined and focused, but we end up doing something that wasting our time.

This is normal, but it's also very unfortunate. It costs us lots of pains. It means we achieve less and become less than the person we intended.

Do you really have a plan to fix them this year? The matter is to develop the person we want to be is the issue on our personal growth and what we want to achieve in this new year. You have to forget whatever thing you couldn't do last year and move forward to enable you to achieve your BEST this very year.

Change is a fact of life and it is inevitably. Things don't stay the same, they become. You are, in some small way, different than you were yesterday. And in some small way, you will be different tomorrow. One of the major questions for everyone is that, do you really have a plan for your personal growth? Do you really plan to achieve your desire goal this very year.

One of the things I have learned that to "work harder on yourself than you do on your job." Since change and evolution are inevitable, it follows that we both plan, and control our growth, or we allow ourselves to be influenced by whatever things happen to impact us.

So, the question is, do you have a plan for your Personal Development? Or, are you more like the Grand Canyon-changing in whatever way the river affects you? In my experience, almost no one has a real plan to become the person they want to become. And that's particularly strange since almost everyone has a vision for who they hope to become. We have goals or dreams, we have habits we all want to break off, to change from, or new habits that we want to take place in us. We have skills that we hope to learn, but few have plans or budgets or blueprints to make it happen.

Every day, society and culture press upon us. Every day we are encouraged to buy new things, to adopt "new and improved" gadgets or to go along with new fashions, and new behaviors. Between advertising and conversations with friends, our sense of styles, our sense of language, behavior and attitudes are being influenced in amazing ways. That happens!

And we rarely question it. It just happens and we don't even notice. I suspect this is at least a small part of our understanding.

So, I encourage you to think about whom you are, and your plans to become the person you want to be. Imagine yourself with the skills you'll need. Imagine yourself having the virtues and maturity and attitudes you'd like to have. In general, we tend to become the person we intentionally and consciously imagine ourselves to be.

But, this is not enough! Change may be inevitable, but GROWTH requires planning, intention and effort. Do you have a list of books you'll read this year? Make a list of them. Jot down the titles and check them off as you move through the list, cover to cover and book by books. Do you have a list of skills you want to learn or acquire this year? Make your list. Do you also have a list of the personality attributes that you want to acquire or expand? Make also a list of them. It makes you go in the line of your goals to achieve your plan this year.

Do you read of any book or article, and other publications like this in every week or magazine or blogs on the internet? Do you think about these ideas, discuss them with colleagues, and encourage your friends and co-workers to do the same?

Do you regularly budget your time, money and energy for personal development? Do you read at least an hour or two per week? Do you take classes or attend conferences, workshop, or watch educational videos on a regular basis? Are you becoming the person you really want to be? Or are you drifting and hoping for the best? Remember, hope is not a strategy! Have a plan to become the person you want to be, then be the best you can and this depends mostly on YOU.

Wish you Success ahead!




Popular posts from this blog

6 Tools for Publishing Content to Multiple Social Media

The presence of social media platform like Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, Instagram, and other social network has made businesses goes around the world and successful today. Some of these platforms are the success behind many entrepreneurs in helping bring their businesses in reaching the world.

How to Back-Up SIM And Phone Contacts On MTN

Recently, I share on how to enable SIM lock on your phone to protect your data from being fall into wrong hands, or someone else using your information even when your phone is lost. If you lost your phone or misplaced, you need to use window tool find my phone to locate it. See “Find My Phone”.

8 Social Media Tips to Promote Your Business

If you are information/internet marketer, or selling online and you want to expose your business to million, you need a social media to promote your business.

Professionally, designing a website 24/7 to market your business is good, but if you don’t create awareness to direct people to your website there won’t be any sales. Therefore, you need a social media to direct traffic to your site and promote your business even without a website.

Today, social media has been the best marketing tools to widely promote your business, reaching to millions of people out there. Many companies use these social media to increases their sales daily.

How to Save, Download Video and Picture On Facebook to Phone Gallery

Facebook has a larger numbers of videos, pictures that has been posted by millions of users worldwide. Everyone love to watch posted videos and save to download them; and that probably to reduce the work load of their data usage. I was with someone who was watching videos on Facebook and having problem of downloading some of these videos. Then, I discovered that there are some few Facebook users who were still having same problem of how to downloading videos from their Facebook account to save them into phone gallery for use.

10 Ways to Generate Traffic to Your Website Through Search Engine

Everyone wants to generate traffic one way on the other to the blog site. Every blogger and website owner want his or her blogs post to be find on search engine, hence increases more visitors to their blog. Of course, there are some other methods to generate traffic but all depends on the marketing campaign you use to drive visitors to your blog.

MTN Solar: Mobile Electricity Power Reliable For Home Use

The lack of electricity power supply has been one of the major challenging in African even in basic of lighting and other appliances like phones charging, television, radio and many more. Most African countries has been discovered their potential in positioned themselves to put solution to the challenges of electricity problem in their countries.

7 Ways of Idea to Get Content For Your Blog

Content is extremely important for webmasters. No matter what kind of website you’re building, if the content is not catching the attention of the people, you are no go area.  When people surf the website they are specifically looking for particular information, if they don’t see what they are looking for they will quickly leave for another.

Blogging Tips For Starting A Business

Creating a successful business is not an easy task. If you want your business to be well known, you need to start blogging because that is the very best way you will be know in whatever you’re dealing.

When starting a blogging business, you need to set up your blog on a site that is already popular in search engines. To know the variety of blog to use for business blogging See: Creating Your Own Blogging Site Can Make You Money.



Email *

Message *